Phobias: What Are You Afraid of?

In the 1991 comedy “What About Bob?” we get a great insight into the very real world of phobias. Bill Murray plays Bob Wiley, a man who suffers from a wide variety of phobias. The movie chronicles his relationship with his psychiatrist, Dr. Leo Marvin, (played by Richard Dreyfuss) and Dr. Marvin’s family.

Bob’s phobias constitute the lion’s share of laughs in this comedy. Although very funny to watch, phobias can be a very difficult thing to live with and is one of the most common mental health issues that people cope with everyday.

Phobias come from a Greek word meaning fear. In psychological terms, phobias are intense, irrational fears of almost anything imaginable: spiders, flying, open water, foreigners, sleep. Many people can live with and manage these, and many other, phobias. If a phobia is not manageable or begins to affect ones life, the phobia should be treated as an anxiety disorder.

Phobias are usually a learned or conditioned response from a past event. Events such as near death or traumatic experiences can often lead someone to have a fear of things associated with these stressful events. A good example would be someone who is afraid of swimming because of a near death experience they had in a pool while they were a child.

Other phobias are learned or created by someone because they have conditioned their brain to respond in a certain way. A good example would be someone who is afraid of flying even though they have never been in an accident or know someone who has been in one. Perhaps phobias such as these are learned due to outside forces such as media and friends. News stories about plane crashes can certainly propagate the fear of flying.

It is important to remember that a large percentage of adults have at least one phobia. One should not be concerned about simple phobias like fear of speaking or fear of spiders. Concern should only arise if a phobia begins to control your life. If that is the case you might want to visit a therapist.

Types of Anxiety Disorders

Anxiety disorders are a problem that affect a large number of people. An anxiety disorder happens when normal stress and anxiety becomes extreme. For most people who suffer from anxiety disorders, it has actually become disabling. There are actually about five types of anxiety disorders.

Generalized anxiety disorder is a problem where tension and worry are exaggerated. At times, there may actually be no reason behind the anxiety, it is just there. Though there is the mental component of anxiety and possibly overblown concerns, there is also a physical aspect as well. trembling, sweating, headaches, and other forms of physical stress are generally part of generalized anxiety disorder as well.

Obsessive compulsive disorder is shown by unwanted, reoccurring thoughts or obsessions, or behaviors that are repetitive. Certain rituals, and a need to do them, are what most people think of when they think about obsessive compulsive disorder, but it can also have a mental aspect, where there are obsessive thoughts, rather than actions.

If you have been exposed to a traumatic event, you may suffer from post traumatic stress disorder. Many soldiers suffer from this disorder, as well as others. Problems sleeping, as well as a feeling of being numb or detached are characteristics of post traumatic stress disorder.

Social phobia is another anxiety disorder where a person has anxiety and problems dealing with other people, and social situations. Because of a fear of being judged by others or being watched, some people may be unable to deal with any type of social situations.

What many people associate with anxiety disorders is actually panic disorder. Fear that is very intense, along with dizziness, heart palpitations, chest pain, and shortness of breath, are the basic symptoms of panic disorders.

The different forms of anxiety disorders have different types of treatment. The best way to get treatment for your anxiety disorder is to talk to your doctor, if you feel you have a problem.

Biting Your Nails: Nervous Habits

Biting your nails, tapping your toes, bouncing your knees and the list goes on. Most everyone has a nervous habit of some sort. These habits are usually formed over time. Eventually they become part of a person occurring almost automatically. They become so ingrained into someone’s life that they are often very difficult to stop.

Nervous habits provide very little use other than a way to release energy, usually during times of stress or anxiety. They may relate to a mental health condition. Sometime people do them without stress or anxiety; it almost becomes a way to just kill the time. People spend a lifetime trying to break their nervous habits.

Although most nervous habits seem harmless, most of them are. The physical toll of things like biting your nails or chewing your lips can actually cause some amount of bodily harm. Other than the actual damage that a nervous habit can inflict, nervous habits can be just plain annoying to other people. It might also be detrimental to ones appearance. Some habits just do not appear professional in some settings. At a minimum, nervous habits can make someone appear to be nervous when in fact they are not.

Finding the cause for nervous habits can be tough. As mentioned previously, these habits form over time. Most of these habits stem from something learned or acquired during their childhood years. Unfortunately some children learn these habits from adults, most often their parents. Children mimic them, than eventually form a habit.

So what is the secret to breaking a nervous habit? Many people try to break them but fail. Many suggest creating some sort of mechanism that will make one aware of the habit. For example: placing tape on ones fingertips to prevent biting nails. This increased awareness give a person the opportunity to consciously stop the activity.

The secret to stopping a habit is persistence. So if you are aware of a nervous habit, which you probably are, decide today to focus on breaking it. It will bless both you and most likely those who you associate with.

Warning Signs of Depression

“Every town has its ups and downs. Sometimes ups outnumber the downs, but not in Nottingham…” – The Rooster on Disney’s Robin Hood.

This famous lyric from Robin Hood reflects what many of us feel like everyday. Life can be quite a roller coaster ride. The trick is trying to get more ups than downs. As life events eb and flow so do our emotions and mental health.

Feeling down and sad is a natural reaction to tragic or stressful periods of life. People often describe these periods of life as “depressed.” This is often a mischaracterization. Depression is much more serious than that.

One of the most difficult aspects of depression is identifying it. Most people do not realize when they are truly depressed and when they should seek out professional help. Some of us often ignore symptoms of depression simply because they do not know what the symptoms are.

So how can I know if I am suffering from depression?

There are many warning signs to look for when trying to identify depression. Feelings of hopelessness or helplessness, losing the desire to associate with people, not caring about life are common signs of depression. Withdrawing from friends and family and losing interest in hobbies are key indicators for depressed people. Most often people feel exhausted or overwhelmed throughout the day when suffering from depression.

Other symptoms include: Sleeping too much or trouble getting to sleep; trouble controlling negative thoughts; irritableness; eating disorders (loss of appetite or eating too much); difficulty concentrating. The most dangerous symptom is suicidal thoughts.

It is important to remember that these symptoms must be prolonged. True depression is a condition that manifests itself everyday. It isn’t just your seasonal blues. Depression, if serious enough, can interfere with performing effectively at work and could seriously damage family relationships.

So if you know someone, or are yourself, feeling like the residences of Nottingham (feeling more downs than ups) it may be depression.